We can pay mortgage and trustee after my husband died 22 of July in 2023 I have to wait after they just took my husbands benefits away for 6-9 months or more for any money and it has to be service related or I get nothing I was married for 60 and a half years plus a lost photo of my husband as a Marine we would like to find I’m morning my loss but without finances enough to cover I would be living in the street please help